in those she confided in for the past 19 months ..  

i learnt that although my words were neutral, my raw feelings were not.

i learnt that what may be significant to me may not necessarily be taken as seriously by others.

i learnt that a quiet being does not equate a contented and collected one.

i learnt that conflicts are healthy in true and genuine friendships.

i learnt that despite the hurt and stress, i saw the differences in people.

i learnt to appreciate these differences and not impose my personal convictions.

i learnt that, friends are tons worth more than optimus prime :) 

 ah jan